its easy to fail
its hard to succeed
for every failure
you have to ponder on it
realise your mistakes and learn from it
try your best never to repeat it
success is based on learning from your mistakes
once you do not repeat your mistakes, surely you have one lesser factor that might hinder you from being successful

there will be people around you to convince you that you're a failure if you dont do this or dont do that..
if you follow exactly what they say, then you are a failure
failure to stand on your grounds and say "No.."
it's easier to be influence by others
harder to be an influence itself
if you want to influence people, make sure you're influencing them about the good, and not the bad
bad influence can really hinder you from being a successful person
that hypothesis can be applied to everything that you want to be successful in

besides the people around you, you yourself can be a vice that can deny your success
many a times when you fail the first time, you'd feel like quitting.
at this point, do not quit.
that is the challenge
the challenge to continue on, even after failing
sure, its stressful
but calm yourself down.
think. think. think
think of ways that you can use to be successful.

people around you wont be able to help you
only you can help yourself to success
the people around you can only help and support you so much
but for the rest of the way, you gotta persist and struggle through to be successful.

good luck...

ok, im done...
god bless...
(i hope i made the right decision)